We both made the decision to be childfree long before we were a couple. There are so many challenges that present themselves in a relationship so it was comforting to come together initially and feel grounded about this particular choice. Being childfree has also allowed us to work on those challenges and fully commit to the health and prosperity of our relationship.

Veronica- 48 yrs old

I knew that I wasn't being pulled towards motherhood but there was so much judgement and pressure coming my way that the idea of not having children didn’t seem like a viable choice.

My strategy in my 20s and 30s was to block the pressure and criticism by putting it to the side-- BUT,  I quickly realized that I couldn't ignore the constant doubt and fear swirling in my head (I was also tired of feeling like there was something wrong with me). I took action and did extensive work and research to remove any of the fear or shame that I was carrying. Today, I walk down this path with peace and confidence! My heart is full as I guide women through my program, "Is Childfree For Me? The Essential Guide To Exploring Childfree Life" and experience all the love that fills our childfree membership community. 

Rick- 52 yrs old

Ever since I can remember, the thought of wanting to have kids never entered my mind (although I figured that I would "have to"). I came from a large family so although the notion of a home with no kids seemed strange, I instinctively had no desire to experience the same. I often worried about what my life would look like without children but as I grew older and became more self aware, the thought no longer haunted me. In fact, being childfree has allowed me the time to reflect on my decision and look at my choice in an entirely whole new way. I look forward to sharing my thoughts, experiences, perks and fears of leading a childfree life and connecting with the community.

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What Do Childfree Men Think About?

If you're wondering what childfree men think about, this episode offers a close look into my personal childfree journey. I share how my upbringing shaped my views on parenthood, the mishaps of my past relationships, and the close call I had by assuming that I should have a baby if my partner wanted one. Click the image to watch the episode or listen below.

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Veronica- 46 yrs old

I knew that I wasn't being pulled towards motherhood but there was so much judgement and pressure coming my way that the idea of not having children didn’t seem like a choice. I did "change my mind" a few times (for reasons outside of me that I now clearly understand).  My strategy in my 20s and 30s was to block the pressure and criticism as best as I could but I quickly found out that I couldn't ignore the constant doubt and fear swirling in my head. I took action and did extensive work to remove any shame and walk down this path with peace and confidence! Today, my heart is full with all the love that fills this community.