FREE VIDEO TRAININGÂ
Why You Keep Going Back and Forth About Having Kids (And How to Finally Get Unstuck)
In this training, you’ll discover:Â
• Why the back and forth and what’s actually driving itÂ
• The top 6 fears keeping you stuck (and which one is running you)Â
• 3 ways to start releasing the fear right nowÂ
Is This You?
- You’ve been spinning your wheels trying to decide if you actually want kids, for months, maybe years.
- Your mind plays a constant ping-pong back-and-forth: “yes, I think I want this life… no wait, do I?”
- You feel stuck and alone in your own head, like you can’t say out loud what you’re really thinking.
- Your partner may be leaning in a different direction, and it’s becoming harder to hear your own truth.
- A pregnancy announcement, a friend’s family photo, or a movie scene can send you on an unexpected spiral.
- You feel like you have to defend your leaning to everyone...your mom, your in-laws, your hair stylist, strangers online..
- You’re exhausted by how much energy this question takes up.
- You want to feel settled. You want to stop tumbling down the same mountain every time something triggers you.
If any of that lands, you’re in exactly the right place.
I am a confident 50 year old childfree woman now, but for a long time, I felt extremely confused.
Despite not feeling pulled towards motherhood (and feeling confused by this, because I was considered "motherly" ) I was still uncertain about what a childfree life would mean for my future.
I felt shaky. Fear, doubt, judgment, and social pressure constantly crept up, making it hard to fully commit to being childfree. These thoughts kept swirling in my mind, leaving me feeling STUCK and EXHAUSTED.
I waited for the "magical day" when clarity would strike. It never did. Instead, I'd feel confident, climbing up the mountain toward my answer. Then I'd tumble all the way back down the moment a friend announced a pregnancy or a stranger asked when I was having kids.
I remember sitting in my hairdresser’s chair and she asked me, completely out of nowhere, when I was going to have children. I deflected and laughed it off. But on the inside, I completely fell apart. It wasn’t that the question was unfair. It was that I was nearly 40 and I still didn’t have an answer. That terrified me.
