FREE VIDEO TRAINING
Why You Keep Going Back and Forth About Having Kids (And How to Finally Get Unstuck)
In this training, you’ll discover:
• Why you keep going back and forth and what’s actually driving it
• The top 6 fears keeping you stuck (and which one is running you)
• 3 ways to start releasing the fear right now
You don't need another book, podcast or AI chat to help you make this life-changing decision.
You need a way to hear yourself clearly, without all the noise. Start here.
No sales calls. No spam. Just the training, and a few support notes from me.
The free training is just the beginning. Keep scrolling to see how I can guide you all the way through.
Is This You?
- You’ve been spinning your wheels trying to decide if you actually want kids, for months, maybe years.
- Your mind plays a constant ping-pong back-and-forth: “yes, I think I want this life… no wait, do I?”
- You feel stuck and alone in your own head, like you can’t say out loud what you’re really thinking.
- Your partner may be leaning in a different direction, and it’s becoming harder to hear your own truth.
- A pregnancy announcement, a friend’s family photo, or a movie scene can send you on an unexpected spiral.
- You feel like you have to defend your leaning to everyone...your mom, your in-laws, your hair stylist, strangers online..
- You’re exhausted by how much energy this question takes up.
- You want to feel settled. You want to stop tumbling down the same mountain every time something triggers you.
If any of that lands, you’re in exactly the right place.
Whether you have decided not to have kids or are curious about the childfree path, you should know what this life-altering choice means for YOU.
Here's what you DESERVE to feel.
This program isn’t about giving you an answer.
It’s about helping you trust your own so it actually sticks.
It was built to get you there in six weeks, instead of the years it took me.
Before I joined this program I was experiencing a lot of anxiety and uncertainty regarding the decision to be childfree… After the program, I felt relieved and happy, so so happy!
I have now learned what it feels like to know everything there is to know about being childfree. Completing the program has dramatically lessened my anxiety regarding this decision and given me a new perspective of not only myself, but of society as a whole.
Charlotte - Sweden
This program and working with Veronica was the most empowering I've felt in years. Knowing that everyone struggles with this decision in some capacity and that my feelings are valid was all that I could've asked for. Learning the depths of this program and seeing the impact it has had on my life is something I will cherish forever.
Amanda - Georgia, USA
I appreciated the focus that the program had on exploring what is right for us as individuals. Despite what we may have experienced in our lives up to this point that brought us here, we get to choose our own path. The program helped us connect more deeply with our identity, our goals, our biases, our needs, so we can come to the conclusion that is right for us. I felt great after this program and I would absolutely recommend it!
Olivia - Washington, USA
I felt great after completing this program! It was empowering to learn so much about the influences around me that have shaped some of my beliefs and to better understand myself, goals, and hopes. All of this helped me come to a more informed and confident position that is right for me and my future.
Cassie - Washington, USA
I would describe the program as a nurturing, fulfilling, "I see you", "I'm here for you" with a splash of history, prompts & exercises, and some knowledge bombs. The gap in the childfree community is large, vacant, sparse and 9/10 times not a kind place - and this fills that with grace and laughter. I cannot recommend this enough if you are anxious, struggling, confused, maybe don't know where to start, don't see yourself in our culture, simply don't have the desire, enjoying your auntie life, are a step mom, and beyond.
This is for everyone!
Ambur - New York City, USA
I am a confident 50 year old childfree woman now, but for a long time, I felt extremely confused.
Despite not feeling pulled towards motherhood (and feeling confused by this, because I was considered "motherly" ) I was still uncertain about what a childfree life would mean for my future.
I felt shaky. Fear, doubt, judgment, and social pressure constantly crept up, making it hard to fully commit to being childfree. These thoughts kept swirling in my mind, leaving me feeling STUCK and EXHAUSTED.
I waited for the "magical day" when clarity would strike. It never did. Instead, I'd feel confident, climbing up the mountain toward my answer. Then I'd tumble all the way back down the moment a friend announced a pregnancy or a stranger asked when I was having kids.
I remember sitting in my hairdresser’s chair and she asked me, completely out of nowhere, when I was going to have children. I deflected and laughed it off. But on the inside, I completely fell apart. It wasn’t that the question was unfair. It was that I was nearly 40 and I still didn’t have an answer. That terrified me.
I was Up. Down. Up. Down. Over and over. The worst part? It was all happening inside my own head.
SO, I STOPPED WAITING FOR THAT MAGICAL DAY AND DECIDED TO TAKE ACTION.
Here's What I Did...
- Conducted real research: childfree history, demographics, the science behind the “biological clock”, brain function and more.
- Self-evaluated and reflected on my personal belief system vs. those of others.
- Unpacked the cultural conditioning that had me believing motherhood was the only fulfilling path.
- Identified the "snapshot moments" that were hijacking my decision-making and learned to see through them.
- Worked through every fear about a childfree future: aging, regret, identity, legacy...one by one
- Built tools and strategies for navigating the family, friends, partners, and strangers in my life.
Taking ACTION was key.
I felt so grateful that I could finally move on with my life.
I want YOU to feel this confident with your choice too.
Whether you decide to take the childfree path or not, my program allows you to explore childfree life through a brand new lens.
You don't have to spend more time figuring this out alone. I CREATED A STEP BY STEP JOURNEY FOR YOU.
Hundreds of women have walked this path now. They’ve come in spinning, anxious, alone in their thinking.
They’ve come out clear, confident, settled. Most of them tell me the question just… quiets. It’s not that it disappears, it’s that it stops running their life. They go to family dinners without dreading the conversation. They make decisions without second-guessing whether it’s really them choosing. That’s what this is for.
You can walk this program on your own time, on your own schedule, from anywhere!
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The Essential Guide to Exploring Childfree Life
The 6 Week Journey
Week 1 — Setting Out
Sessions 1 & 2: You’ll get oriented for the journey, understand what intentional exploration actually means, and set the foundation for everything that follows. This is where the real work begins.
Week 2 — The Forces That Shaped You
Sessions 3, 4 & 5: The history you didn’t know about, the cultural force that’s been shaping your beliefs in the background, and the myths you’ve been believing and carrying.
Week 3 — The People in Your Life
Sessions 6 & 7: The hardest part of this decision often isn’t the decision, it’s everyone else’s opinions. You’ll learn how to navigate every kind of relationship around this question, and how to release the FOMO that keeps so many of us stuck.
Week 4 — The Traps and the Light
Sessions 8 & 9: The moments that pull most women off course: sudden “baby lust,” the "ticking biological clock" and snapshot moments at family events or social media. You’ll learn to see them coming and stay rooted in your own truth.
Week 5 — The Long View
Sessions 10 & 11: Most fear about a childfree life is fear about the future: aging alone, lack of purpose, no one to care for you. You’ll move through every one of those fears, see them clearly, and discover the deep purpose and gratitude that come from a life you actually chose.
Week 6 — Landing
Session 12: You’ll have your tool belt ready! You’ll celebrate how far you’ve come, and step into your post-program life, alongside the other graduates who’ve done the work with you.
One thing about how this program is built:
I lean fully into the childfree side on purpose. Not because I’m pushing you in any direction, I’m not. But because society already shows you motherhood everywhere. Family, friends, every storyline, every social media feed. You don’t need more of that side of the picture. What you need is a guided, honest look at the other path...so your own answer becomes yours.
What you’re investing in here isn’t sessions or a workbook. It’s the version of you who can sit at a family dinner, hear the question, and answer it without your stomach dropping. The you who can scroll past a pregnancy announcement without it sending you into a confusion spiral. That clarity is what this program is built to give you.
i tried the waiting game too
Waiting doesn’t make this easier. It makes it louder. More opinions from more people. More pressure from media, more well-meaning advice, more biological clock anxiety layered on top of everything you’re already carrying. I know this because I waited over a decade. What finally helped wasn’t more time, it was doing the actual work with the right support. That’s what this is here for.
Self Paced
$497 pay in full
- Lifetime access to all 12 video sessions
- Exploration & Reflection Digital Workbook
- Knowledge checks at the end of every section
- Six‑week guided release schedule (new sections every week)
- Gentle self‑paced structure so you can move through this on your own timeline
Self Paced with Veronica
$897 pay in full
- Everything in Self Paced, plus:
- Two private 60‑minute Zoom sessions with me woven into your program: one mid‑program to work through what’s surfacing, and one at the end to land your answer.
- A session prep journal to write down questions as they come up between calls, so we use every minute of our time together.
HERE'S WHAT'S INSIDE THE CHILDFREE EXPLORATION PROGRAM:
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VIDEO SESSIONS
12 Sessions (40 Lessons) of pre-recorded videos taught by yours truly. All sprinkled with examples, extensive research and my personal stories. I selected only the material that was most impactful in finding my confidence.
DIGITAL WORKBOOK
A series of thought provoking Q&A sheets that correspond with the Sessions in the program. There are also separate sections for further reflection and exploration. Of course you have the option to use a journal, if you prefer.
COMMUNITY
At the end of the program, you’ll be invited into a private community of childfree people around the world. (No pressure, no schedule. Just there if you want it.)
LOVE
I know exactly how you are feeling and I am handing you what I wish I had available to me when the anxiety of this decision weighed on my shoulders.
"One day I was feeling sure that childfree life was for me and the next day I was back to questioning my choice. The back and forth was exhausting and it felt like no one could understand, until I joined the program." - Sarah
Hear More From Women Like You Who Were Unsure About Not Having Kids
Here's How You'll Know.
- You’re ready to move past the “stuckness”.
- You’re ready to understand what’s holding you back from finding your peace with this choice.
- You’re ready to figure out the source of your triggers.
- You’re ready to focus on your personal joy instead of worrying about missing out on what others are doing.
- You’re ready stop absorbing everyone else’s story about what your life should look like...and finally hear your own.
- You’re ready to come out the other side of this with a real answer, not just more information.
If you’re leaning in closer and saying “yes, yes, yes, this is me!” - I’M ALSO READY!
I’VE BEEN EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE AND I BUILT THIS FOR YOU.
You’ve been sitting with this question long enough. You deserve a real process, not another article, not another back-and-forth in your head. No one is going to out-care you through this more than me. That I can promise.
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